ultimate will of God

I have learned I cannot offer counsel until l have heard the other persons story. My initial impression  may be completely misleading. What we see on the surface may not have any relation to what is really going on down under. I am reminded of that sermon I read about the will of God. Their is the Intentional Will of God, the Circumstantial Will of God, the Ultimate Will of God. The Circumstantial Will of God is not what God intended and not what will ultimately be done, but in the present situation God's Will does the best it can with imperfect conditions and imperfect persons. This is risky because sometimes God has to tolerate being taken advantage of and live with less than should be. But this is the way of Love. However, at the end of time God's Ultimate Will is going to be done. Life is not fair and a lot is displeasing to us; however the underlying Love in all creation sooner or later prevails and we hang in for the present.